momei's profilemomeiPhotosBlogLists Tools Help

Blog


    August 03

    自问自答

    心情起伏很大,突然抽风般想起问自己些问题,希望能真正了解近来的自己
    感觉累吗? 是的,非常
    没有动力? 是的,但是没有动力并不代表没有目标,现在还是比较清楚想要的是什么。
    从某种角度讲现有的一切让人不再愿意真正去拼搏? 是的,我已经拥有太多。
    辩解、证明失去意义 ? 是的,你有你的立场,我有我的原则,敞开心扉畅所欲言不是我的习惯,还好有大气和超强的自我调节能力
    习惯的从宏观再到细节,单独的细节没有任何意义? 是的,所以经常在不经意处就犯错。
    国内的社会、关系远比国外复杂的多?是的,至少国外很多东西是建立在单纯的满足人本能的欲望
    浪费时间一说彻底推翻?是的,没有量变也就没有质变
    “沟通”意义建立在平等?绝对的,一旦双方地位不平等时,处于所谓下方的人会保持沉默,大部分时候只能听到是无关紧要、不痛不痒的东西,眼前的顺从和毕恭毕敬也是这种不平等使然
    看问题要长远,这社会真真假假,自己找到平衡点就好,自己善于思考、善于观察但不够认真、不够职业所以有时候只能以小卖小、装疯卖傻,生命中有太多叉路口,但是不同时期总遇贵人相助,这些我都感觉得到,这一年来遇到不少挫折、自己选了条相当坎坷的路但相反也成长不少,当初的抉择不就是就是见识这些真实。到这仿佛已经很轻松了,当一切都变得没有意义、不重要的时候也就无所谓

    Comments (3)

    Please wait...
    Sorry, the comment you entered is too long. Please shorten it.
    You didn't enter anything. Please try again.
    Sorry, we can't add your comment right now. Please try again later.
    To add a comment, you need permission from your parent. Ask for permission
    Your parent has turned off comments.
    Sorry, we can't delete your comment right now. Please try again later.
    You've exceeded the maximum number of comments that can be left in one day. Please try again in 24 hours.
    Your account has had the ability to leave comments disabled because our systems indicate that you may be spamming other users. If you believe that your account has been disabled in error please contact Windows Live support.
    Complete the security check below to finish leaving your comment.
    The characters you type in the security check must match the characters in the picture or audio.

    To add a comment, sign in with your Windows Live ID (if you use Hotmail, Messenger, or Xbox LIVE, you have a Windows Live ID). Sign in


    Don't have a Windows Live ID? Sign up

    thely Bawrote:
    Voilà!
    Aug. 4
    momei xiewrote:
    rrrrrrrrrrr;婆婆,执着的另一面就是固执
    Aug. 4
    wangqi wangwrote:
    好嘛我不得不承认你比很多同龄人都要执着。。。。
    Aug. 4

    Trackbacks

    The trackback URL for this entry is:
    http://xmomei.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!594416D3EF0B0B4F!512.trak
    Weblogs that reference this entry
    • None